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Funerals in Islam follow fairly specific rites, though they are subject to regional interpretation and variation in custom. In all cases, however, sharia (Islamic religious law) calls for burial of the body, preceded by a simple ritual involving bathing and shrouding the body, followed by salah (prayer). Cremation of the body is forbidden.
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Common Islamic burial rituals
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(Fiqh)PoliticalEtiquetteIslamic studies Burial rituals should normally take place as soon as possible and include:[1]
- Bathing the dead body,[2] except in extraordinary circumstances as in battle of Uhud.[3]
- Enshrouding dead body in a white cotton or linen cloth.[4]
- Funeral prayer .(صلاة الجنازة) [5]
- Burial of the dead body in a grave.
- Positioning the deceased so that the head is faced towards Mecca (Makkah Al-Mukarramah).
Bathing the deceased
The corpse is washed (ghusl bathed), the purpose is to physically cleanse the corpse. The exact manner: the method, style and accessories used for bathing the corpse may vary from locale and temporal position. However the deceased is bathed, it is an essential ritual of the Sunnah of the Islamic prophet Muhammad,[6] and therefore a part of the Islamic Sharia. Ideally, this occurs as soon as possible, within hours of the actual death.
The orthodox practice is that the body is washed while a cloth is put on top of it so that his/her awra (keeping specific organs of the body hidden according to Sharia) is kept hidden. The water is then poured over the body with the cloth on the body. The awra should be covered at all times.
The "washers" are commonly the same gender as the deceased, and immediate family members. In the case of violent death, or accident where the deceased has suffered trauma or mutilation, morgue facilities accommodate this practice and mend or pack the body in a shroud (so there is minimal blood or fluid leakage, which would distress the mourners) prior to the body of the departed being surrendered to the mourners.
Enshrouding the deceased
The corpse is typically wrapped in a simple plain cloth (the kafan). This is done to respect the dignity and privacy of the deceased. The specifics of this ritual, including the material, style, and color of the cloth, may vary across regions. However, the shroud should be simple and modest. It is for this reason that Muslims have generally preferred to use white cotton cloth to serve as the shroud. For men using only three pieces of cloth and for females five pieces of cloth. Some perfume may be applied to the cloth as well.[7]
The deceased may be kept in this state for several hours, allowing well-wishers to pass on their respects and condolences.
Funeral prayer
The Muslims of the community gather to offer their collective prayers for the forgiveness of the dead. This prayer has been generally termed as the Salat al-Janazah (Janazah prayer).
The Janazah prayer is as follows:
- like Eid prayer, the Janazah prayer incorporates an additional (four[8]) Takbirs, the Arabic name for the phrase Allahu Akbar, but there is no Ruku' (bowing) and Sujud (prostrating).
- Supplication for the deceased and mankind is recited.
- In extraordinary circumstances, the prayer can be postponed and prayed at a later time as was done in the Battle of Uhud.[5]
- Dogma states it is obligatory for every Muslim adult male to perform the funeral prayer upon the death of any Muslim, but the dogma embraces the practical in that it qualifies, when Janazah is performed by the few it alleviates that obligation for all.[9]
Burial
The deceased is then taken for burial (al-Dafin). The exact manner, customs and style of the grave, the burial and so forth may vary by regional custom.
The grave should be aligned perpendicular to the Qibla (i.e. Mecca). The body is placed in the grave without a casket, lying on its right side, and facing the Qibla.[10] Grave markers should be raised only up to a maximum of 30 centimetres (12 in) above the ground. Thus Grave markers are simple, because outwardly lavish displays are discouraged in Islam. Many times graves may even be unmarked, or marked only with a simple wreath. However, it is becoming more common for family members to erect grave monuments.
In Middle Eastern cultures women are generally discouraged from participating in the funeral procession. The reason for this is that in pre-Islamic Arabia it was customary in Arabia for grieving women to wail loudly. Wealthy families often even hired 'wailers' to attend the funerals of their deceased relative. Wailing at funerals is not permitted in Islam.[11]
Three fist-sized spheres of hand-packed soil (prepared beforehand by the gravediggers) are used as props, one under the head, one under the chin and one under the shoulder. The lowering of the corpse, and positioning of the soil-balls is done by the next of kin. In the case of a departed husband, the male brother or brother-in-law usually performs this task. In the case of a departed wife, the husband undertakes this (if physically able). If the husband is elderly, then the eldest male son (or son-in-law) is responsible for lowering, alignment and propping the departed.
The orthodoxy expects those present to symbolically pour three handfuls of soil into the grave while reciting a Quranic verse in Arabic meaning "We created you from it, and return you into it, and from it We will raise you a second time".[12] More prayers are then said, asking for forgiveness of the deceased, and reminding the dead of their profession of faith.
The corpse is then fully buried by the gravediggers, who may stamp or pat down the grave to shape. Commonly the eldest male will supervise. After the burial, the Muslims who have gathered to pay their respects to the dead, collectively pray for the forgiveness of the dead. This collective prayer is the last formal collective prayer for the dead. In some cultures e.g. South East Asian Muslims, the surviving members of the deceased scatter flowers and perfumed rose water upon the grave as the last action prior to leaving the grave.
Mourning
According to orthodoxy, loved ones and relatives are to observe a 3-day mourning period.[13] Islamic mourning is observed by increased devotion, receiving visitors and condolences, and avoiding decorative clothing and jewelry.
Widows observe an extended mourning period (iddah, period of waiting), 4 months and 10 days long,[14] in accordance with the Qur'an.[15] During that time, the widow is not to remarry, interact with na-mahram (with whom she can marry). (This rule is to confirm that the woman is not pregnant with the deceased's child prior to remarrying). However in case of emergencies such as visiting a doctor because of a health emergency, the widow can interact with na-mahram.
Grief at the death of a beloved person is normal, and weeping for the dead (by males or females) is perfectly acceptable in Islam.[16]
Islam does expect expression of one's grief to remain dignified: Islam prohibits the expression of grief by loud wailing (bewailing refers to mourning in a loud voice), shrieking, beating the chest and cheeks, tearing hair or clothes, breaking objects, scratching faces or speaking phrases that make a Muslim lose faith, although much latitude is granted in practice, as fatigue and emotion can adversely affect ones' behaviour, and such behaviour is rarely censured.[17]
Directives for widows
The Qur'an prohibits widows to engage themselves for four lunar months and ten days, after the death of their husbands. According to the Qur'an:
And those of you who die and leave widows behind, they should keep themselves in waiting for four months and ten days. Then when they have fulfilled their term, there is no blame on you about what they do with themselves in accordance with the norms [of society]. And Allah is well acquainted with what you do. And there is also no blame on you if you tacitly send a marriage proposal to these women or hold it in your hearts. Allah knows that you would definitely talk to them. [Do so] but do not make a secret contract. Of course you can say something in accordance with the norms [of the society]. And do not decide to marry until the law reaches its term. And know that Allah has knowledge of what is in your hearts; so be fearful of Him and know that Allah is Most forgiving and Most Forbearing.Islamic scholars consider this directive a balance between the mourning of a husband's death and the protection of a widow from cultural or societal censure if she became interested in re-marrying after her husband’s death, often an economic necessity.[18] This provision also operates to protect the property rights of the unborn, as the duration is enough to ascertain whether a lady is pregnant or not.[19]
Husbands are recommended to make a will in favor of their wives for the provision of one year’s residence and maintenance, except if the wives themselves leave the house or take any other similar step. As stated in Qur'an:
And those of you who die and leave widows should bequeath for their widows a year’s provision and [bequeath] that [in this period] they shall not be turned out of their residences; but if they themselves leave the residence, there is no blame on you for what they do with themselves according to the norms of society. And Allah is Exalted in Power, Wise.See also
Notes
- ^ Ghamidi (2001), Customs and Behavioral Laws
- ^ Sahih al-Bukhari 1254
- ^ Sahih al-Bukhari 1346
- ^ Sahih Muslim 943
- ^ a b Ghamidi, Various types of the prayer
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 344-358
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 353-358
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 404
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 359
- ^ al-Misri, Ahmad ibn Naqib (1994). Reliance of the Traveler (edited and translated by Nuh Ha Mim Keller. Amana Publications. pp. 238–239. ISBN 0915957728.
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 368
- ^ Quran 20:55; compare "Dust thou art, and unto dust thou shalt return" (Genesis 3:19)
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 369-371
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 370-371
- ^ Quran 2:234
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 391
- ^ Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book 23, Number 375-393
- ^ Islahi (1986), p. 546
- ^ Shehzad Saleem. The Social Directives of Islam: Distinctive Aspects of Ghamidi’s Interpretation, Renaissance. March, 2004
References
- Ghamidi, Javed (2001). Mizan. Dar al-Ishraq. OCLC 52901690.
- Amin Ahsan Islahi, Tadabbur-i-Qur'an, 2nd ed., vol. 1, (Lahore: Faran Foundation, 1986)
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