- Katherine Stanhope, Countess of Chesterfield
Infobox Person
name = Katherine Stanhope
Countess of Chesterfield
image_size = 200px
caption = Katherine, Lady Stanhope byAnthony van Dyck
birth_date = 1609
birth_place =Boughton Malherbe ,Kent
death_date =9 April 1667
death_place =Belsize Park ,Middlesex
occupation =Courtier
nationality = English
spouse = (1)Henry Stanhope, Lord Stanhope (d. 1634)
(2) Jehan van der Kerckhove, Lord of Heenvliet (d. 1660)
(3) Daniel O'Neill (d. 1664)
parents =Thomas Wotton, 2nd Baron Wotton (1587-1630) and Mary Throckmorton (d. 1658)
children = Mary Stanhope (1629-1660)
Catherine Stanhope (c.1633-1662)Philip Stanhope, 2nd Earl of Chesterfield (1634-1713)Charles Kirkhoven, 1st Earl of Bellomont (1643-1683)
Amelie van der Kerckhove (1646-1663)
Dorothea Helena van der Kerckhove (d. 1703)Katherine Stanhope, Countess of Chesterfield (bapt.
19 December 1609 –9 April 1667 )Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume I, p.108] [Her name is also given as "Katharine", "Catharine" or "Catherine" in various historical documents.] was an English-borncourtier at the Dutch court ofMary, Princess Royal and Princess of Orange and later to the restored court in England. Throughout her serving life, she was a trusted aide to the princess and the exiled English court atThe Hague . But, as a former widow, was also faced with the hardship of securing family lands during the sequestrations carried out by theCommonwealth of England and surviving political intrigue. Despite this, and after having been thrice married, she was later granted apeerage and was to become a wealthy woman before her death.Early life and first marriage
Born Katherine Wotton in 1609, she was the eldest daughter and coheir of
Thomas Wotton, 2nd Baron Wotton and his wife, Mary, nee Throckmorton. She was also a paternal great-niece of Sir Henry Wotton and a maternal great-niece of Sir Walter Raleigh.Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume II, p.106] Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume III, p.180]On
4 December 1628 , Wotton marriedHenry Stanhope, Lord Stanhope (the eldest surviving son ofPhilip Stanhope, 1st Earl of Chesterfield , and his first wife, Catherine) atBoughton Malherbe Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume II, p.106] becoming Lady Stanhope by courtesy. They had three surviving children:*Mary (1629-1660), died unmarried.Cokayne et al, "
The Complete Peerage ", volume I, p.108]
*Catherine (c.1633-1662), marriedWilliam Alington, 3rd Baron Alington .Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume I, p.108]
*Philip, later 2nd Earl of Chesterfield (1634-1713)Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume III, p.181]When Lord Stanhope died
intestate atSt. Martin-in-the-Fields in 1634, their eldest son, Philip, became a royal ward and Lady Stanhope was obliged to pay £2000 for the grant of the wardship to herself.Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume III, p.180] She was forced to borrow this money due to her husband dying in debt and her father-in-law, Lord Chesterfield, refusing to help her. Relations with her father-in-law appear to have been generally poor, since hepetition ed against her in 1636 for her refusal to payship money of £30, which had then been claimed from histenant s. After her husband's death, Lady Stanhope then divided her time between her children at her estate inBoughton Malherbe and her house on New Street betweenCovent Garden and Strand (later briefly occupied byJohn Flaxman ). [ [http://www.british-history.ac.uk/report.asp?compid=45151&strquery=%22Countess%20of%20Chesterfield%22 'Covent Garden : Part 2 of 3', Old and New London: Volume 3 (1878), pp. 255-269] . Date accessed:16 March 2008 ] A letter from Lord Conway to Sir Thomas Wentworth (laterEarl of Strafford ) in 1637 suggests she was careful with her money. ["The earl of Strafforde's letters and dispatches, with an essay towards his life", edited by Knowler, W. (1739)] The wealthy Lord Cottington was said to have wanted to marry Lady Stanhope, but she was said to be in love with her cousin, Carew Raleigh, son of Sir Walter. She was also a lover of van Dyck until they argued over the cost of a portrait of her, which he threatened to sell to a higher bidder. [Johnson, Paul - "Art: A New History". Harper Collins: New York, 2003]econd marriage
In 1640, the Dutch diplomat Jehan van der Kerckhove, Lord of Heenvliet, visited
England with instructions to arrange a marriage between Prince William, the only son ofFrederick Henry, Prince of Orange , and Princess Mary, a daughter of Charles I. Heenvliet was married with children at the time, but was soon widowed and began to woo Lady Stanhope. Their courtship did not go smoothly, however, as Heenvliet was considered an 'obscure foreigner' - any children from the marriage would have had noinheritance rights underEnglish law and if she predeceased him, all of Lady Stanhope's property would be forfeit toThe Crown . Heenvliet'sconfidant ,Louis de Dieu , later wrote a letter toJames Ussher , the Protestant Archbishop of Armagh, containing full details of Heenvliet's lineage and honours and asked Ussher to reassure Lady Stanhope as to the worth of her possible future husband. [A copy of the letter fromLouis de Dieu toJames Ussher ,17 November 1640 , Bodl. Oxf., Rawl. D. manuscripts 559, folios 45–51] When the king also gave his support to the marriage, Heenvliet and Lady Stanhope were married in early 1641, shortly before the marriage of the young prince and princess. [van Baerle, C. - "Epithalamia in nuptias illustris viri Iohannis Polyandri à Kerckhoven...et illustrissimae Catherinae Wottoniae" (1641)]Life in Holland
Charles I then appointed Heenvliet Superintendent of the new household of Princess Mary (aged nine) at
The Hague , whilst Lady Stanhope took over as Mary's governess from the Countess of Roxburghe. Lady Stanhope's appointment was not universally accepted, however: the Marquess of Hamilton had lobbied for his mother-in-law, the Countess of Denbigh, to be appointed, and the princess herself had caused a public scene when Lady Roxburghe left The Hague a few months after they arrived there in 1642. ["Fifth Report",Historical Manuscripts Commission , appendix 60] The young princess soon transferred her affections to Lady Stanhope, to whom she remained attached for the rest of her life, as she did to Lord Heenvliet.Lady Stanhope became pregnant during the early months of her governess-ship and gave birth to 'a big and fat child' in 1643.Clarendon state papers, Bodl. Oxf., Clarendon manuscripts] She and Lord Heenvliet intended to name him Thomas after her father, with her mother, the Dowager Lady Wotton, and Lord Heenvliet's father, Poliander, as godparents. However, Princess Mary and the Prince of Orange proposed themselves for this role and the child was baptised with the more regal names of Charles Henry.Cokayne et al, "
The Complete Peerage ", volume II, p.106]Lady Stanhope's initial duties as governess consisted of looking after the princess's wardrobe and carrying out small errands for her, but she was also given the task of monitoring the princess's sexual development. She had promised King Charles that she would not allow the marriage to be consummated before Mary was fourteen years old and even stationed an attendant, Mrs. Abercrombie, to sleep in the princess's room to prevent it. When it was discovered in 1644, that the princess's nurse had allowed Prince William to sneak into Mary's bedroom whilst Mrs. Abercrombie was asleep, Lady Stanhope scolded both Abercrombie and the nurse. When it was mentioned that the Prince and Princess of Orange supported their son's actions, Lady Stanhope was silenced and, as Heenvliet commented, 'there is no remedy and they are continuing'.Clarendon state papers, Bodl. Oxf., Clarendon manuscripts] Thereafter, Queen Henrietta Maria and the Princess of Orange both awaited news from Lady Stanhope of a possible pregnancy, though Lady Stanhope told the queen that it was not until early 1647, the time she became Princess of Orange, that Mary began to menstruate.
Lady Stanhope had given birth to a daughter, Amelie Willemine in 1646. Mary, a week after the death of her husband, gave birth to her only child, William (later William III of England) in 1650, at which time Lady Stanhope became indispensable to the young, widowed princess. A few months later, Lady Stanhope's stepdaughter, Walburg (from Heenvliet's first marriage), married Hon. Thomas Howard (a younger son of
Theophilus Howard, 2nd Earl of Suffolk ), the princess'sMaster of the Horse and Walburg became aLady of the Bedchamber to Mary and governess to the young Prince William.Inheritance
The birth of Lord Heenvliet and Lady Stanhope's son a few years earlier had raised their concerns over his
inheritance rights to Lady Stanhope's lands in England. In 1642, Charles I had offered Heenvliet Englishcitizenship and to revive the barony of Wotton (Lady Stanhope's father having been the last holder of the title) for him. However, Heenvliet knew thepeerage would have made both himself and his children foreigners in theDutch Republic and so asked for the barony to instead be conferred on any future son of theirs.Letters of the royal family to Heenvliet and Lady Stanhope, Bodl. Oxf., Rawl. manuscripts 559, letter 115] In 1648, shortly before being removed fromHurst Castle , the king issued a warrant disclaiming any Crown interest in Lady Stanhope's lands, although she obviously tried to secure her lands after the king's execution in 1649. Later that year, the "de jure" Charles II issued an identical warrant and also created their son Baron Wotton, via a patent which was formalised at Perth in 1650.In 1644, during the
English Civil War , Lady Stanhope's property had been threatened with sequestration by theRoundhead s because of her correspondence with the Charles I. Despite herunderwriting an arms deal, Sir Edward Nicholas, aroyalist , was also hostile to both her and Heenvliet and suspected she would compromise with the parliamentary forces in order to save her estates.Clarendon state papers, Bodl. Oxf., Clarendon manuscripts] In 1651, the Chesterfield lands had been sequestrated due to her former father-in-law's role in the war. They were to be sold off if his heir, Lady Stanhope's son, Philip, was not inLondon to compound for them by the end of the year. After attempts to contact her son, who was then travelling inItaly , failed, Lady Stanhope went to London herself and was immediately arrested. [Calendar of state papers; domestic series, 1651–2, 547] She was freed after two weeks and stayed inEngland until the following June, by which time she had secured the Chesterfield estates for her son at a cost of £20,000.Political intrigue
Soon after Lady Stanhope returned to Holland in 1651, Sir Edward Nicholas wrote to Sir Edward Hyde with a serious accusation against her (exactly what is not clear from Hyde's reply), which Hyde passed on to Charles II.The Nicholas papers, edited by G. F. Warner, 4 volumes,
Camden Society , new series, 40, 50, 57, 3rd series, 31 (1886–1920)] The "de jure" king reluctantly wrote to his sister, Princess Mary, to warn her against Lady Stanhope, but the princess furiously denounced the accusation and demanded to know the author.Letters of the royal family to Heenvliet and Lady Stanhope, Bodl. Oxf., Rawl. manuscripts 559, letter 115] The chief suspect was the princess's mother-in-law, the Dowager Princess of Orange, with whom she had poor relations, for which Lady Stanhope was held responsible by the Dutch. Lady Stanhope's suspected damaging influence was shared by Hyde and Nicholas, who saw her and her husband's support for Queen Henrietta Maria and Henry Jermyn's "Louvre faction" as antagonistic to royalist interests.Clarendon state papers, Bodl. Oxf., Clarendon manuscripts] The Nicholas papers, edited by G. F. Warner, 4 volumes,Camden Society , new series, 40, 50, 57, 3rd series, 31 (1886–1920)]Lady Stanhope was seemingly unaffected by the event and by 1654, had won favour with Hyde by offering favours to his wife, Frances and their daughter, Anne (later wife of Prince James, Duke of York). Hyde subsequently denounced any accusations of Lady Stanhope by Nicholas, especially defending her when the latter accused her of a relationship with Daniel O'Neill.Clarendon state papers, Bodl. Oxf., Clarendon manuscripts] Her efforts to regain trust with Charles II took longer, but she later did so, evident that despite refusing to accompany Princess Mary to
Paris on a political visit in 1656, Charles forgave her on the grounds of their friendship.Letters of the royal family to Heenvliet and Lady Stanhope, Bodl. Oxf., Rawl. manuscripts 559, letter 115]Family feud
The re-purchasing of the Chesterfield estates for Lady Stanhope's son soon brought problems. In 1649, her mother had demanded money allocated to the former's daughters, Catherine and Mary (who had stayed with her grandmother throughout Lady Stanhope's life in Holland). However, the land from which Lady Stanhope intended to raise this money had to be sold to buy the Chesterfield estates, the income from which made her son, Philip, independent of his mother. In 1654, Philip brought a
lawsuit against his mother which seems to have been connected to the money reserved for his sisters, yet possibly connected to the terms of his recent marriage contract to Lady Anne Percy, since the lawsuit also involved his father-in-law, the Earl of Northumberland. Lady Stanhopecounterclaim ed by claiming all expenses paid to her son since his father's death, whilst at the same time pleading for assistance and sympathy from family or friends.The dispute continued throughout the 1650s and was finally resolved in 1659, when the old accusations, against Lady Stanhope's and Heenvliet's readiness to co-operate with the parliamentary forces for the protection of their lands, resurfaced. They were also accused of being willing to accept the Wotton barony and citizenship not from Charles I, but from
Richard Cromwell , and also of providing information toJohn Thurloe during the war, charges denied by Heenvliet. [Thurloe state papers, volumes 1-2, 7]Third marriage and final years
Lord Heenvliet died in 1660 and Lady Stanhope commissioned a marble monument to him in the Pieterskerk in
Leiden . [ [http://users.pandora.be/van-kerckhoven/wistu.htm#johan Pandora - Johannes à Kerckhoven (1594-1660), André Van Kerckhoven, 2007] . Date accessed:16 March 2008 nl] Charles II's recognition of her services to himself and his sister, Princess Mary, was rewarded when on29 May 1660 (the day the king arrived inLondon following The Restoration), he created her Countess of Chesterfield (a title she would have been known by had her first husband survived his father) for life.Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume III, p.180] The new countess then prepared for the arrival of Princess Mary to England, but the next few months were to be the last of her long service to Mary, as the princess died later that year. [Wier, Alison, "Britain's Royal Family: A Complete Genealogy", The Bodley Head, 1999, p.265] The countess and her stepdaughter, Walburg, were left £500 by Mary, but the countess was owed a considerable amount from the princess, which was unable to be paid (as well as most of her other legacies) as she died heavily in debt. [Calendar of state papers; foreign series, 1661] [Public Record Office , SP 84/116] As a result, Lady Chesterfield refused to return the princess's jewellery until she received her full legacy, and also kept Mary's wardrobe as a perquisite.Lady Chesterfield then made her life in England and Heenvliet and their three children were naturalised in 1660. [ [http://www.british-history.ac.uk/report.asp?compid=14037 'House of Lords Journal Volume 11: 27 August 1660', Journal of the House of Lords: volume 11: 1660-1666, pp. 144-145.] Date accessed:
16 March 2008 ] She was later reconciled to her son, Philip (by nowEarl of Chesterfield ), but her daughters soon died: Mary fromsmallpox in 1660, Catherine in childbirth in 1662 and Amelie in 1663.Letters ofPhilip Stanhope, 2nd Earl of Chesterfield ] Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume I, p.108] She continued her royal service to the new court, becoming an attendant to the Duchess of York and later becoming aLady of the Bedchamber to the Queen in 1663. [Burke, John - "Chesterfield, Earl of":Burke's Peerage "]Despite her shrewdness and complaints about her finances, Lady Chesterfield was already a wealthy woman at the time of The Restoration, retaining her estate at
Boughton Malherbe and her house inCovent Garden . [ [http://www.british-history.ac.uk/report.asp?compid=22646 'Hampstead: Manor and Other Estates', A History of the County of Middlesex: Volume 9: Hampstead, Paddington (1989), pp. 91-111.] Date accessed:16 March 2008 ] Her wealth soon increased when she married, in 1662, her old friend Daniel O'Neill, who had been well rewarded by Charles II for his loyalty.Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume III, p.181] When O'Neill died of astomach ulcer two years later, he left everything to Lady Chesterfield and she became very rich, inheriting his property, pensions, Postmaster Generalship and monopoly on the manufacture ofgunpowder forThe Crown . [Letter from King Charles II to the Duchess of Orléans, 1664] [ [http://www.xjt60.dial.pipex.com/id70.htm Falmouth Packet Archives 1688-1850] Date accessed:16 March 2008 ]In her last few years, she lived at
Belsize Park (built for her by O'Neill) with her son, Lord Chesterfield, who was with her when she died ofdropsy in 1667. [The diary ofJohn Evelyn , 4.92] Letters ofPhilip Stanhope, 2nd Earl of Chesterfield ] Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume III, p.180] She was buried alongside her husband in the church ofSaint Nicholas at Boughton Malherbe and her will instructed a monument of the couple be erected there, showing who O'Neill was and 'my relation to him'.Cokayne et al, "The Complete Peerage ", volume III, p.181] [Will of Lady Stanhope 11/323, folio 53] Lord Chesterfield carried this out, but took the opportunity to add his own father to the memorial, which consists of three whitemarble lion s surmounted by a black marble three-sidedpyramid (now paving thevestry ), the faces referring to O'Neill, Lady Chesterfield and Lord Stanhope. [ [http://www.kentchurches.info/parish.asp?p=Boughton+Malherbe Kent Churches, John E. Vigar, 2006] . Date accessed:16 March 2008 ]Ancestors
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1= 1. Katherine Stanhope, Countess of Chesterfield
2= 2.Thomas Wotton, 2nd Baron Wotton
3= 3. Mary Throckmorton
4= 4.Edward Wotton, 1st Baron Wotton
5= 5. Hesther Pickering (illegitimate)
6= 6. Sir Arthur Throckmorton of Paulerspury
7= 7. Anne Lucas
8= 8. Thomas Wotton of Boughton Malherbe
9= 9. Elizabeth Rudstone
10= 10. Sir William Pickering of Oswald Kirk
12= 12. Sir Nicholas Throckmorton of Paulerspury
13= 13. Anne Carew
14= 14. Sir Thomas Lucas of Colchester
15= 15. Mary Fermor
16= 16. Sir Edward Wotton of Boughton Malherbe
17= 17. Dorothy Read
18= 18. Sir John Rudstone of Bocton Monchenay
24= 24. Sir George Throckmorton of Coughton
25= 25. Katherine Vaux
26= 26. Sir Nicholas Carew of Beddington
27= 27. Elizabeth Bryan
28= 28. John Lucas of Colchester
30= 30. Sir John Fermor of Easton Neston
31= 31. Maud VauxNotes and references
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