Edmund Nelson (clergyman)

Infobox Person
name = Reverend Edmund Nelson

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caption = The Reverend Edmund Nelson, painted by Sir William Beechey in 1800
birth_date = 19 March 1722
birth_place = Cambridge
death_date = death date and age|1802|4|26|1722|3|19|df=yes
death_place = Bath, Somerset
other_names =
known_for =
occupation = Clergyman
nationality = British

Reverend Edmund Nelson (19 March 1722 – 26 April 1802) was a Anglican clergyman during the eighteenth century, most famous as the father of Horatio Nelson.

Early life and family

Edmund was born in Cambridge on 19 March 1722, one of eight children of the Reverend Edmund Nelson and Mary Bland. The Nelsons were an old Norfolk family and were moderately prosperous. Edmund was baptised on 29 March 1723 at the parish church at East Bradenham. Three of his siblings died in infancy, whilst Edmund himself had 'a weak and sickly constitution'.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 32] He was educated at a number of Norfolk schools before attending Caius College, Cambridge. He attained a bachelor's degree, followed by a Master's, after which he left to become curate at his father's church in Sporle. He then worked under Reverend Thomas Page at Beccles, and on his father's death in 1747, Edmund succeeded to the livings of Hilborough and Beccles.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 33] During his time at Beccles Edmund met Catherine Suckling, and married her on 11 May 1749 at Bath, Somerset. Catherine was the daughter of Reverend Maurice Suckling, and her grandmother had been the sister of Sir Robert Walpole. The family therefore became distant relations of the powerful Earls of Orford, and Catherine's immediate family, including her brother, Maurice Suckling, provided important influence that would help the Nelsons' children in their early years.The couple moved to Swaffham after their marriage where Catherine bore Edmund three children. Two died in infancy, a third, Maurice, survived.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 34] They then moved to Sporle, where on 12 June 1755 Catherine gave birth to the couple's first daughter, Susanna. Also in 1755 Horace Walpole offered Edmund the position of rector at Burnham Thorpe. Edmund accepted and the two settled at the rectory.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 35] William was born on 20 April 1757, and on 29 September 1758, Catherine gave birth to Horatio, naming him after their benefactor and the young Horatio's godparent, Horace Walpole.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 36] Horatio was a sickly child, and Edmund feared he would not live long enough to be baptised at the public ceremony arranged for 15 November. Horatio was baptised at a private ceremony on 8 October.

The last of the Nelson children followed, Ann on 20 September 1760, Edmund on 4 June 1762, Suckling on 5 January 1764, and Catherine on 19 March 1767. Another boy, George, was born in 1765 but died three months later. Edmund's wife, Catherine, died on 26 December 1767, leaving him with eight children. A grief-stricken Edmund buried her four days later in the church at Burnham Thorpe.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 40] He never remarried. Catherine's mother, Ann, died shortly afterwards. Maurice Suckling, Edmund's brother-in-law, visited the rectory to attend the funerals, and found Edmund heart-broken, and fearing for the future for his children. He had begun to call in favours with relatives to ensure that educations and positions could be found for them, and Suckling promised to do what he could for one of the boys, using the patronage available to him as a naval captain. Edmund himself wrote

As it has fallen to my lott to take upon me the care and affectation of double parent, they [the children] will hereafter excuse where I have fallen short and the task has been too hard.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 41]

The concern that he might fail to do the best for his children remained with him all his life. He duly decided to send William and Horatio, or Horace as the boy preferred to be known at this stage in his life, to Norwich School.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 42]

Edmund eventually found suitable positions and schooling for all of his children, and when Nelson asked his father to write to Maurice Suckling and request a place for him on his ship, Edmund did so. Despite Maurice's apparent misgivings, he agreed to take Nelson into the service.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 47]

Later life

As his children left the home and went off to their new lives, Edmund remained at Burnham Thorpe. He lived a modest quiet life, but continued to follow the lives and careers of his children with interest. He had a modest income provided by his work as a parson, as well as several small investments and the legacy of his daughter Ann, who had died in 1784.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 379] In 1778, Horatio returned to England after serving in the West Indies, bringing with him his new wife, Frances Nisbet, informally known as 'Fanny'. Edmund had by this time come to prefer his seclusion, and did not look forward to the arrival of his extended family. Edmund's health was never particularly strong, and he suffered from 'paralytic and asthmatic' conditions. He took occasional trips to Bath to sample the springs. He wrote

I am not now anxious to see them. Him for a day or two I should be glad of, but to introduce a stranger to an infirm and whimsical old man, who can neither eat nor drink, nor talk, nor see, is as well let alone.

Consequently it was not until late 1788 that Horatio and his new wife arrived at the rectory at Burnham Thorpe.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 381] Horatio had spent a considerable amount of time attempting to obtain command of another ship, but finally recognised this was unlikely to occur in the near future, and bowed to Fanny's wishes to settle and start a household. Despite Edmund's initial reluctance to meet them, he found Fanny to be an enduring friend, and Horatio to be a dutiful and caring son. Edmund moved out of the rectory in 1790 to let the couple start to establish their own household. He settled in a cottage at Burnham Ulph, but made frequent visits to the couple.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 382]

Edmund continued to make trips to Bath during the cold Norfolk winters, and Fanny often accompanied him while her husband was at sea. Edmund's declining health made him more and more dependant on Fanny, whilst he sought to act as her guardian while Horatio was away. The two enjoyed the pace of life at Bath, and became firm friends, with Fanny reading to him and providing companionship. Edmund wrote that

[Fanny] truly supplies a kind and watchful child over the infirmities and whimsies of age.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 535]

Edmund soon retired, passing on the parsonage to his son, the Reverend Suckling Nelson. As Horatio's fame grew Edmund followed his son's exploits, and soon came to be accosted by well-wishers on his walks around Bath. Fanny wrote

He is grown young. These blessings in his declining days cheer him.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 382]

In 1800, with Horatio's fame continually increasing, Edmund sent Fanny to London to visit the studios of Sir William Beechey, and to ask if Beechey might come to take a sitting. Beechey replied that he would not, as he only travelled to the sitter in the case of royalty. But then he enquired who the sitter was, and on being told it was the father of Lord Nelson, declared 'My God! I would go to York to do it!'cite book |last=Oman |title=Nelson |pages=p. 350] [ [http://www.nmm.ac.uk/collections/nelson/viewObject.cfm?ID=BHC2881 Beechey's portrait of Edmund Nelson at the National Maritime Museum] ] Edmund however remained dismayed by the breakdown of his son's marriage and wrote to Horatio on occasion to rebuke him for his neglect of Fanny. He did however visit Horatio at Merton Place, where he was living with William and Emma Hamilton.cite book |last=Oman |title=Nelson |pages=p. 427]

Death

Edmund was in declining health by early 1802. Fanny had travelled from London to be at his side, but Horatio remained at Merton Place, writing a letter stating

I have no hopes that he can recover. God's will be done. Had my father expressed a wish to see me, unwell as I am, I should have flown to Bath, but I believe it would be too late. However, should it be otherwise and he wishes to see me, no consideration shall detain me a moment.cite book |last=Hibbert |title=Nelson |pages=p. 301]

The Reverend Edmund Nelson died later that day, 26 April 1802, at the age of 80. His son did not attend the funeral, held at Burnham Thorpe on 11 May, but did pay the funeral expenses.cite book |last=Coleman |title=Nelson |pages=p. 282] Edmund Nelson was described by a later biographer of Lord Nelson as 'kind, modest and generous...to be counted on in times of trouble.' He also possessed a dry sense of humour.cite book |last=Sugden |title=Dream of Glory |pages=p. 39]

Notes

References

*citebook|author=Sugden, John|title=Nelson - A Dream of Glory|location=London|publisher=Jonathan Cape|year=2004|isbn=0-224-06097-X
*citebook|author=Oman, Carola|title=Nelson|location=London|publisher=Hodder & Stoughton|year=1987|isbn=0-340-40672-0
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* [http://thepeerage.com/p3424.htm#i34239 The family of Edmund Nelson at thepeerage.com]