Debra Haffner

The Reverend Debra W. Haffner is the director of The Religious Institute on Sexual Morality, Justice, and Healing. A sexuality educator and advocate for more than twenty-five years, she was ordained as a Unitarian Universalist minister in 2003 after receiving her Masters of Divinity from Union Theological Seminary. She also has a Masters of Public Health from the Yale University School of Medicine and received her undergraduate education at Wesleyan University. She was a Research Fellow at the Yale Divinity School in 1996-97.^[1][2]

The Reverend Haffner is the former President and Chief Executive Officer of SIECUS, the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States. During her twelve years of leadership there, SIECUS expanded its staff significantly and increased its annual budget. SIECUS also opened its offices in New York and Washington, DC during that time.^[3] In 2001 Rev. Haffner co-founded the Religious Institute on Sexual Morality, Justice, and Healing with Rev. Dr. Larry Greenfield.

Advocacy

Sex education

Recently Rev. Haffner appeared on the O'Reilly Factor to discuss the importance of introducing elementary school children to sexuality education. O'Reilly criticized Haffner's use of the word "uterus" in explaining pregnancy and birth to kindergarteners, claiming that it was too explicit for children that age. Haffner responded that using correct terminology and providing accurate information are vital in establishing open communication with children.^[4] "Sexuality education is a religious issue," Rev. Haffner stated. "We have a commitment to helping young people develop a moral conscience, including an ability to make healthy decisions. We have a religious commitment to truth telling, which means that people should have full and accurate information, not biased and censored."^[5]

Rev. Haffner was quoted recently by The New York Times regarding the decision Maryland schools made to offer lessons on homosexuality as part of its sexuality education program. Offering her support of this decision, Haffner refuted the argument that offering these lessons might influence students' behavior rather than simply offer neutral information. She stated, "It's a myth that our schools don't teach values about lots of things. We don't put communism, socialism and capitalism on an equal footing in our classes on government."^[6]

Creating sexually healthy communities

In collaboration with the New England Adolescent Research Institute (NEARI), Haffner developed a course entitled Balancing Acts that is designed to train ministers and other religious professionals in how to keep children and youth safe from sexual abuse. Rev. Haffner works frequently with congregations who are struggling with including sex offenders in their congregations, and in this program, she addresses the concerns these faith communities face when discerning how to discern appropriate involvement for these individuals.^[7] It suggests the formation of a "limited access agreement" to determine what activities the individual may participate in and suggests rules and guidelines to prevent the occurrence of future abuse.^[8] "Every place of worship needs a safe-congregation policy," Haffner said.^[7]

Bibliography

Books

• What Every 21-st Century Parent Needs to Know: Facing Today's Challenges with Wisdom and Heart, Newmarket Press, 2008.
• A Time to Heal: Protecting Children and Ministering to Sex Offenders, LifeQuest, 2005.
• Beyond the Big Talk, Newmarket Press, 2001, paperback, 2002.
• Exploring the Dimensions of Human Sexuality with Jerry Greenberg and Clint Breuss, Jones and Bartlett Publishers, 2000, 2002, 2004.
• From Diapers to Dating: A Parents' Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Children, Newmarket Press, 1999, paperback 2000, revised update 2004.
• What I've Learned About Sex with Pepper Schwartz, Perigee Books, 1998.

Monographs

• Reaching Out to Faith Communities, Connecticut: Religious Institute, 2006.
• Balancing Acts: Keeping Children Safe in Congregations, Boston: Unitarian Universalist Association, 2005.
• A Time to Build: Creating Sexually Healthy Faith Communities, Connecticut: Religious Institute, 2002.
• A Time to Speak: Faith Communities and Sexuality Education, New York: SIECUS, 1998.

References

1. ^ http://futurechoices.net/bios/haffnerdbio.html
2. ^ http://www.religiousinstitute.org/staff/the-rev-debra-w-haffner
3. ^ "Lecture Platform BioBox - Debra Haffner". Chautauqua Institution. http://www.ciweb.org/Lectures/haffner.html. Retrieved 2007-08-20. ^{[dead link]}
4. ^ Deborah (2007-07-20). "O'Reilly Needs Some Kindergarten Level Sex Education". News Hounds. http://www.newshounds.us/2007/07/20/_oreilly_needs_some_kindergarten_level_sex_education.php. Retrieved 2007-08-20. 
5. ^ Deakin, Michelle Bates (2007-08-17). "UU sexologist faces off against Bill O'Reilly". UU World. Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations. http://www.uuworld.org/news/articles/43077.shtml. Retrieved 2007-08-20. 
6. ^ Schemo, Diana Jean (2007-08-15). "Lessons on Homosexuality Move Into the Classroom". The New York Times. http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/15/education/15education.html?_r=2&oref=slogin. Retrieved 2007-08-20. 
7. ^ ^{a b} Gorlick, Adam (2007-08-06). "Course Helps Churches Handle Offenders". The Associated Press. http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/08/06/AR2007080600268.html. Retrieved 2007-08-20. 
8. ^ "Online course helps churches deal with sex offenders". Boston Herald. http://news.bostonherald.com/localRegional/view.bg?articleid=1015093&format=&page=2. Retrieved 2007-08-20. 

External links

• Religious Institute on Sexual Morality, Justice, and Healing (official website)
• Religion and Sexuality: What's the Connection? (Rev. Haffner's blog)

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