Bachelor party

A bachelor party (United States, South Africa), also known as a stag party or stag night or stag do (UK, Ireland, Canada and New Zealand), bull's party (South Africa) or buck's party, or buck's night (Australia) is a party held for a bachelor shortly before he enters marriage, to make the most of his final opportunity to engage in activities a new partner might not approve of, or merely to spend time bonding with his male friends (often in his wedding party afterwards).

The history of bachelor party is thought to have originated with a bachelor dinner that was traditional in ancient Sparta (5th century BC) where soldiers would toast each other on the eve of a friend’s wedding. Fact|date=October 2007

A bachelor party may involve activities beyond the usual party and social gathering ingredients (often drinking alcohol and gambling), such as going to a strip club, hiring a stripper or escort, and in some traditions more hazing-like tests and pranks at the future groom's expense, which shows the whole thing is also a rite of passage from bachelorhood (associated with an adolescent lifestyle, often in the common past of most participants, e.g. in their student years) to "more responsible" marital life.

The task of organizing a bachelor party is often traditionally assigned to a male sibling of the bachelor or to the best man. Otherwise, any (close and/or reputedly party-minded) male friend will organize it. The planned activities of a bachelor party are traditionally kept secret from the groom.

Bachelor parties have also been the subject of many movies, especially comedies.

Variations

It has also become common for a similar party to be held for the bride-to-be. This is known as a bachelorette party or Hen party.

A tame version is the so-called Stag and Doe party, in which both the bride and groom attend.

UK

In the United Kingdom it is now common for the party to last for more than one evening, hence the increasing prevalence of the phrase "stag weekend". A spin off has been the growth of the Stag Weekend Industry in the UK with various companies taking the "hassle" out of the weekend.

In the UK, stag weekend trips are becoming mini-holidays with the groups taking part in various day time activities as well as the expected night out on the town. Popular UK destinations include Blackpool, Brighton, Bournemouth, Sunderland, Liverpool and Edinburgh. With the rise of budget airlines, there is now a growing trend for stags to go abroad Boyer, David. "Bachelor Party Confidential: A Real-Life Peek Behind the Closed-Door Tradition" New York: Simon Spotlight Entertainment 2007. ISBN 1416928081] , with Krakow, Dublin and Riga topping the list, followed by Prague, Vilnius, Amsterdam, Bratislava and Antwerpen.

Groups of friends attending weekends away in the UK and even into Europe with their best friend leave home on a Friday and embrace 2 days of fun. The groom who normally is called "the Stag" will have a selection of tasks to complete on the stag weekend.Group activities include paintball, kart racing and clay pigeon shooting.

United States

In the United States, Las Vegas, South Beach (Miami), Chicago and New Orleans are popular bachelor party destinations; they are also popular wedding locations. Increasingly, "destination bachelor parties" are replacing standard nights out, with Americans traveling to Montreal or Mexico. [Austin, Michael. "Bachelor parties skip town." "Crain's Chicago Business" 7 May 2007. pp. 53-58. "MasterFILE Premier" EBSCOHost. Retrieved 23 May 2007.]

Bachelor parties in the US often entail the mass consumption of alcohol, the hiring of a stripper or prostitute, and general rowdiness toward which the bride might not have a positive reaction (especially since women are not supposed to be among the invitees). Increasingly, bachelor parties have come to symbolize the last time when the groom is truly "free" and without the influence of his new wife.

Australia

Many Buck's Nights feature a stripper, commonly referred to as the pouch. The groom's mates often, after heavy drinking, subject the groom to various humiliations, sometimes in public. These often include leaving him tied naked to a pole or placing him on an aeroplane to a remote location.

Canada

Canadian cities such as Toronto, Montreal or Vancouver are popular bachelor party destinations due to their large number of strip clubs with "dance contact" (lap-dancing). Montreal in particular is popular for this purpose with both Canadians and Americans alike. The female equivalent of a stag party in Canada is often known as a "stagette" or "doe."

France

In France, the bachelor party is called "enterrement de vie de garçon" (for the groom-to-be), which literally means "burial/funeral of the life as a bachelor", or "enterrement de vie de jeune fille" (for the bride-to-be), i.e. "burial/funeral of the life as a non-married girl". As in English-speaking countries, such parties often feature heavy drinking and various (although gentle) humiliations, and sometimes the presence of a stripper.

References

ee also

*Bachelorette party
*Bridal shower