Babe Paley

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birth_name = Barbara Cushing
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birth_place = Boston, Massachusetts
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spouse = Stanley Grafton Mortimer, Jr.; William S. Paley
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Barbara Cushing Mortimer Paley (July 5, 1915 – July 6, 1978) was an American socialite and style icon.

Early life

Born Barbara Cushing on July 5, 1915 in Baltimore, Maryland, she was the daughter of world-renowned brain surgeon Dr. Harvey Cushing, who was professor of surgery at Johns Hopkins, Harvard and Yale universities.

Barbara, nicknamed "Babe," and her sisters were schooled in the art of marrying well by their ambitious, social-climbing mother. They were taught to pursue only men of wealth and social prominence. Her older sisters both married into money and prestige: Mary (Minnie) Cushing was the second wife of Vincent Astor, and Betsey Cushing married James Roosevelt, the son of President Franklin D. Roosevelt and then later John Hay Whitney.

A student at the Westover School in Middlebury, Connecticut, Babe was presented as a debutante in October 1934 in Boston, with the sons of President Roosevelt in attendance. ^{_{New York Times, October 24th, 1934}} Her debut drew great attention during the Great Depression, and marked the beginning of her social career. She graduated from the Winsor School in Boston in 1934.

Marriages

Babe Cushing worked as a fashion editor for "Vogue" in New York City when she met and married blueblood oil heir Stanley Grafton Mortimer, Jr. in 1940. Though Babe’s mother preferred that Babe marry a powerful man with a title, she generally approved of the union. Barbara Mortimer was named to the best-dressed list in 1945 and 1946. Her position at Vogue gave her access to designer clothes, often given in exchange for Babe's high profile and glamorous image. She became the mother of two children: Amanda and Stanley Grafton Mortimer III, but her marriage to Mortimer was short-lived and ended by 1946. Mortimer went on to marry Kathleen Harriman, the daughter of Averell Harriman, and father three children.

Many recent retrospectives claim that she neglected her children while in pursuit of social status and depended upon the wealth of her husbands to support her lavish lifestyle. Her daughter Amanda admitted that their relationship was "virtually nonexistent" and that the distance "was her choice, not mine."

After her divorce, she received a settlement based on a trust fund. Babe then set out to make a second high-profile marriage. In 1946, she met William S. Paley, the founder of CBS. Paley was phenomenally wealthy, with an interest in the arts and a desire to be a part of New York café society. With Babe's social connections, beauty and style, Paley stood a greater chance of being granted entrée into a society which had barred him. For Babe, Paley offered wealth, security and worldliness. They married in 1947. The couple had two children, Kate and Bill Jr.

Her famous style

Babe set about to cultivate and create a picture-perfect social world. The couple took an elegant apartment at the St. Regis and hired noted interior designer Billy Baldwin to decorate. She and Paley lived there during the week, while weekends were spent at Kiluna Farm, on eighty acres in Manhasset, Long Island, where a succession of landscape architects and garden designers beautified the grounds. [They included Alice Recknagel Ireys, Russell Page, Thomas D. Church and the connoisseur and collector Henry Francis du Pont (Valentine Lawford, "The Gardens of Mrs. William S. Paley: Landscape Architecture by Russell Page," "Architectural Record" ] The more distant retreat, Kiluna North, on Squam Lake, was purchased in 1975; there they entertained celebrities who welcomed the privacy; [In 1970 the house was given to Dartmouth College and serves as [http://www.dartmouth.edu/~minary/history/ Minary Conference Center] .] its woodlands provided settings for the film "On Golden Pond" (1981).

Though the anti-Semitic prejudices of society excluded the Paleys from a number of important social functions and exclusive clubs, Babe nevertheless kept a circle of high-society friends that included author Truman Capote and fellow socialite/style icon Slim Keith. Capote included Paley and Keith in his group of "swans" (glamorous New York socialite women) along with Gloria Guinness and C.Z. Guest. Paley famously dropped Capote as a friend when excerpts of his much-touted work in progress, "", revealed the gossipy confidences of many of New York's elite.

In addition to lavish entertaining, Babe maintained her position on the best-dressed list fourteen times before being inducted into the Fashion Hall of Fame in 1958. Babe regularly bought entire "haute couture" collections from major fashion houses. Her personal style was inspirational to thousands of women who tried to copy her, but as Bill Blass once observed, “I never saw her not grab anyone’s attention, the hair, the makeup, the crispness. You were never conscious of what she was wearing; you noticed Babe and nothing else.”

Her personal, unconventional style was enormously influential. A photograph of Babe with a scarf tied to her handbag, for example, created a trendy tidal wave that millions of women emulated. She often mixed extravagant jewelry with cheap costume pieces, and embraced letting her hair go gray instead of camouflaging it with dye. In a stroke of modernism, she made pantsuits chic. Babe's image and status reportedly created a strain on her marriage to Paley, who insisted that his wife be wrapped in sable and completely bejeweled at all times. By many biographers' accounts, Babe was lonely and frustrated as Paley carried on a chain of extramarital affairs. This psychological battering took its toll on Babe and her family. She was constantly under the scrutiny of society and the media, who pressed her to maintain the unrealistic image of a social and fashion goddess. These external pressures, as well as a two-pack-a-day cigarette habit, finally wore her health.

Final years

In 1974, Babe was diagnosed with lung cancer. She planned her own funeral, right down to the food and wine selections that would be served at the funeral luncheon. She carefully allocated her jewelry collection and personal belongings to friends and family, wrapped them in colorful paper, and created a complete file system with directions as to how they would be distributed after her death.

Babe finally succumbed to lung cancer on July 6, 1978, the day after her 63rd birthday. She was interred in the Memorial Cemetery of St. John's Church, Cold Spring Harbor, New York. On his death in 1990, her husband was interred next to her.

Legacy

Long after her death, Babe Paley remains an icon in the world of fashion and style. “Babe Paley had only one fault,” commented her one-time friend Truman Capote, “She was perfect. Otherwise, she was perfect.”

Many fashion designers and interior decorators continue to reference Babe Paley's style in their own creations. While incredibly wealthy, her style is seemingly accessible. Paley and her "swans", much like Jacqueline Kennedy during the 1960s, exemplified a young, attractive and affluent class that many Americans aspired to join.

Babe Paley was portrayed in the film "Capote" (2005) by Michelle Harrison and in "Infamous" (2006) by Sigourney Weaver.

Trivia

In Jacqueline Susann's 1969 novel, "The Love Machine", the characters of socialite Judith Austin and her husband Gregory Austin, CEO of a television network, were said to be based on Babe and William Paley. Dyan Cannon portrayed Judith in the 1971 film version.

ources

*Grafton, David. "The Sisters: Babe Mortimer Paley, Betsey Roosevelt Whitney, Minnie Astor Fosburgh - The Lives and Times of the Fabulous Cushing Sisters". Villard (1992).

*Smith, Sally Bedell (1948- ). "In all his glory: the life and times of William S. Paley and the birth of modern broadcasting." New York, Simon and Schuster, 1990.

* [http://www.dominomag.com/galleries/edspicks/babepaley] Domino magazine's "Editor's Pick - Babe Paley, featuring a photo of Paley at her Round Hill Villa in Jamaica

* [http://www.lucire.com/2004/spring2005/1106fe0.shtml] Fashion designer Zang Toi's Spring 2005 collection inspired by Babe Paley's time in Jamaica

* [http://www.newyorksocialdiary.com/shoppingdiary/shoppingdiary2.php] NewYorkSocialDiary.com

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