Princess Elisabeth of Hesse and by Rhine

Infobox Person
name = Princess Elisabeth of Hesse and by Rhine


image_size = 180px
caption = Princess Elisabeth of Hesse in folk costume.
birth_date = birth date|1895|3|11|mf=y
birth_place = Darmstadt, Hesse, Germany
death_date = death date and age|1903|11|6|1895|3|11|mf=y
death_place = Skierniewice, Poland
occupation = Royalty
parents = Ernst Ludwig, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine and Princess Victoria Melita of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha

Princess Elisabeth of Hesse and by Rhine (Prinzessin Elisabeth Marie Alice Viktoria von Hessen und bei Rhein) (11 March, 1895 - 6 November, 1903) was the only daughter of Ernst Ludwig, Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine and his first wife, Princess Victoria Melita of Saxe-Coburg and Gotha. She was named after her aunt, the Grand Duchess Elizabeth Feodorovna of Russia and was also nicknamed Ella after her. Her early death was rumored to be a result of poison meant for her uncle, Tsar Nicholas II, but the court physician said she died of virulent typhoid. [Sullivan, Michael John, "A Fatal Passion: The Story of the Uncrowned Last Empress of Russia," pp. 223-225.]

Birth

Her parents, nicknamed 'Ernie' and 'Ducky,' were first cousins who married at the instigation of their common grandmother, Victoria of the United Kingdom. The marriage was an unhappy one from the start. [Sullivan, p. 136]

Princess Victoria Melita was eighteen at the time of Elisabeth's birth. She was fond of Elisabeth, but found it hard to compete with Ernst's devotion to their daughter. [Sullivan, p. 142-143] Ernst was convinced even before Elisabeth could speak that he alone could understand her. At the age of six months, she was scheduled to move to a new nursery and her father 'consulted' her on her color preferences. He claimed that she made 'happy little squeals' when he showed her a particular shade of lilac material. Ernst then decorated her nursery in shades of lilac. [Sullivan, p. 142] He later had a playhouse built for his daughter that stood in its own garden. Adults were forbidden to enter "much to the frustration of royal nurses and tutors, who could be seen pacing up and down impatiently outside as they waited for their high-spirited young charges to stop their games and emerge." [Sullivan, p. 148]

Childhood

Margaretta Eagar, a governess for the daughters of Tsar Nicholas II, described Elisabeth as "a sweet and pretty child, with wide grey-blue eyes and a profusion of dark hair. She was much like her mother, not only in face, but also in manner." The four-year-old Elisabeth wanted a baby sister and tried to persuade her aunt and uncle to let her parents adopt one of her first cousins, Tatiana or Maria. cite web | author=Eagar, Margaret | year=1906| title= "Six Years at the Russian Court" | work= alexanderpalace.org|url=http://www.alexanderpalace.org/eagar/eagar.html/ |accessdate = December 10| access year=2006] Her parents had only one other child together, a stillborn son, in 1900.

, "and was supported by the little Hesse girl who took him under her protection and held him most of the time round his neck. They looked such a delightful little couple." [Sullivan, p. 204]

In his memoirs, written more than thirty years after her death, her father wrote of Elisabeth's "deep sensitivity" and "very large heart." He wrote that "I never knew a child who had so much influence on adults. Her inner personality was very strong, and she had a natural quality that protected her from being spoiled." [Sullivan, p. 217] In October 1901, after the death of Queen Victoria, Elisabeth's parents finally divorced, her mother having previously embarked on an affair with another cousin, her future husband, Grand Duke Cyril Vladimirovich of Russia. Her parents' divorce meant that Elisabeth divided her year between Darmstadt and her mother's new home in Coburg. Elisabeth was at first mistrustful of her mother and resented the divorce, although Victoria did her best to mend her relationship with her daughter during her visit with Elisabeth in the spring of 1902. She was only partially successful, [Sullivan, pp. 217-218] though Victoria enjoyed turning her daughter into an outstanding horsewoman.

In his memoirs, Ernst said he had difficulty persuading Elisabeth to visit her mother. Before one visit, he found the child "whimpering under a sofa, full of despair." He assured Elisabeth that her mother loved her too. "Mama "says" she loves me, but you "do" love me," Elisabeth replied. [Sullivan, p. 218] Margaret Eagar thought the child's eyes were the saddest she had ever seen. "Looking at her I used to wonder what those wide grey-blue eyes saw, to bring such a look of sadness to the childish face," she wrote. Eagar wondered if Elisabeth had a premonition of her own death because she often told her cousin Grand Duchess Olga Nikolaevna of Russia that "I shall never see this again." However, despite Elisabeth's sad eyes, she was generally a sweet, happy child who was a peacemaker when her cousins had a dispute.

Death

, Elisabeth went on long walks and had picnics in the forest with her cousins. [Van Der Kiste, John, "Princess Victoria Melita," p. 65.]

Her nanny, who called Elisabeth "my baby," woke Elisabeth in the middle of the night and settled her in a window seat of the nursery so that she might look out on the game spread out upon the grounds below. One morning, the eight-year-old awoke with a sore throat and pains in her chest, which the Russian Court doctor put down to too much excitement with her cousins the previous day. Her fever rose to 104 degrees. The imperial party didn't believe her illness was a serious one and went ahead with their plans for the day and attended the theater as planned. By the evening Elisabeth was in even more severe pain and had started gasping for breath. A specialist was summoned from Warsaw. The specialist gave her injections of caffeine and camphor to stimulate her slowing heart, but without success.

"Suddenly she sat up in her bed and looked from one to the other of us with wide, frightened eyes," wrote Eagar. "She cried out suddenly, 'I'm dying! I'm dying!' She was coaxed to lie down again, but remained agitated. "The child turned to me, and said anxiously, 'Send a telegram to mama.'" Eagar promised it would be done. "She added, 'immediately.' ... We continued to fan the feeble spark of life, but moment by moment it declined. She began to talk to her cousins, and seemed to imagine she was playing with them. She asked for little Anastasie and I brought the wee thing into the room. The dying eyes rested on her for a moment, and Anastasie said, 'Poor cousin Ella! Poor Princess Elizabeth!' I took the baby out of the room." Doctors told Alexandra that the child's mother should be notified, but the telegram did not arrive until the following morning, when Elisabeth had already died. [Sullivan, p. 223] An autopsy following her death confirmed that she had died of virulent typhoid, although it was rumored she had eaten from a poisoned dish intended for the Tsar. [Van Der Kiste, p. 65.]

Funeral and legacy

Elisabeth's body was placed in a silver casket, a gift from Nicholas II, for the journey back to Darmstadt. Her father arranged a white funeral, with white instead of black for the funeral trappings, white flowers, and white horses for the procession. The Hessian people came out by the thousands to view the funeral procession and "sobbed in unison so that I could hear it," Ernst wrote. [Sullivan, p. 224] A cousin, Kaiser Wilhelm II, expressed shock at the child's death in a letter to Tsar Nicholas II on November 7, 1903. "How joyous and merry she was that day at Wolfsgarten, when I was there, so full of life and fun and health ... What a terrible heartrending blow for poor Ernie, who doted and adored that little enchantress!" [Andrei Maylunas and Sergei Mironenko, editors; Darya Galy, translator, "A Lifelong Passion: Nicholas and Alexandra: Their Own Story," p. 231.] Elisabeth was buried in the Rosenhohe with other members of the Hessian grand ducal family. A marble angel was later installed to watch over her grave. [Sullivan, p. 225. ] In a final gesture to Elisabeth and Ernst, Victoria Melita placed her badge of the Order of Hesse, granted to her upon her marriage, into Elisabeth's coffin. [Sullivan, p. 225] Ernst was still devastated by the memory of his daughter's death thirty years later. "My little Elisabeth," he wrote in his memoirs, "was the sunshine of my life." [Van der Kiste, p. 64]

Notes

References

* [http://www.alexanderpalace.org/eagar/eagar.html Margaret Eagar, "Six Years at the Russian Court," 1906.]
*Andrei Maylunas and Sergei Mironenko, editors; Darya Galy, translator, "A Lifelong Passion: Nicholas and Alexandra: Their Own Story," Weindenfeld and Nicolson, 1997, ISBN 0297815202
*Michael John Sullivan, "A Fatal Passion: The Story of the Uncrowned Last Empress of Russia," Random House, 1997, ISBN 0679424008
*John Van Der Kiste, "Princess Victoria Melita," Sutton Publishing Ltd., 2003, ASIN B000K2IRNU

External links

* [http://www.artnet.com/magazineus/features/tuchman/tuchman2-15-06.asp "The Royal Half," by Phyllis Tuchman, an article in Artnet Magazine.]

Persondata
NAME=Hesse, Princess Elisabeth of
ALTERNATIVE NAMES=
SHORT DESCRIPTION=Daughter of Ernst-Ludwig, last Grand Duke of Hesse and by Rhine, and of Princess Victoria Melita of Great Britain and Saxe-Coburg-Gotha.
DATE OF BIRTH=March 11, 1895
PLACE OF BIRTH=Darmstadt, Hesse, Germany
DATE OF DEATH=November 6, 1903
PLACE OF DEATH=Skierniewice, Poland