Law of chastity

The law of chastity is one of two moral codes established by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It is one of the most important and stressed codes of a member's life, introduced at an early age (8-10) and focused on in 'young men' and 'young women' sunday school classes for 12-18 year olds. As part of the church's Endowment ceremony, the law of chastity is defined as the avoidance of sexual relations except with a legal spouse, and participants in the ceremony are bound by oath to obey this law. The law of chastity also refers to a much broader code banning masturbation, heavy petting and the viewing of pornography. The importance of chastity is considered by many Mormon teachers, prophets and members to be more important than a person's life. [ [http://www.i4m.com/think/sexuality/mormon_sex_purity.htm LDS Mormon Sex Abuse ] ] Chastity and virtue are stressed throughout a member's church life, and especially to children raised in the church. As an example of the church's portrayal of this law, former president and prophet of the church Ezra Taft Benson has stated: cquote|"From the beginning of time, the Lord has set a clear and unmistakable standard of sexual purity. It always has been, it is now, and it always will be the same. That standard is the law of chastity. It is the same for all—for men and women, for old and young, for rich and poor. In the Book of Mormon, the prophet Jacob tells us that the Lord delights in the chastity of His children (see Jacob 2:28). Do you hear that, my brothers and sisters? The Lord is not just pleased when we are chaste; He delights in chastity. Mormon taught the same thing to his son Moroni when he wrote that chastity and virtue are “most dear and precious above all things” (Moroni 9:9)."- President Ezra Taft Benson, BYU Devotional, October 13, 1987, New Era, Jan. 1988, page 4The stress of avoiding sexuality, pornography and unchaste thoughts has resulted in several Mormon youths getting married after very brief courtships and sometimes no courtships at all. Mention of these problems have been raised by church members themselves on several occasions. [ [http://baronofdeseret.typepad.com/baronblog/2005/01/the_lds_guide_t_3.html The Baron of Deseret: The LDS Guide to Dating and Marriage, Part 5: 'Quickie' Courtships ] ] Ever since a General Conference in 1956 there has been a particular importance played on the avoidance of 'self abuse'. There are several online guides for members of the church on how to overcome the practice of masturbation, although pornography tends to be the modern focus of the church. [ [http://www.bycommonconsent.com/2006/02/a-brief-review-of-mormon-intimacy By Common Consent » A brief review of Mormon intimacy ] ] The 1976 talk by Boyd K. Packer (A member of the Quorum of Twelve Apostles) which was later presented as pamphlets for 12 years and older members of the church insisted that masturbation was a 'tampering' of a young man's biology. [ [http://www.i4m.com/think/sexuality/little_factory.htm LDS Mormon Masturbation ] ] [ [http://www.i4m.com/think/sexuality/masturbation_help.htm Mormon Masturbation ] ]

Law of chastity in the Endowment ceremony

In the Endowment ceremony, participants make an oath to obey the "law of chastity" as it has been defined in the ceremony, which defines it as that men and women should have no sexual relations except with the person to whom they are legally and lawfully wedded. "Sexual relations" — which is commonly defined as "sexual activity between individuals"Fact|date=January 2008 — is also referred to as "sexual relationships" in recent Mormon literature.Fact|date=January 2008

Although the Endowment ceremony only specifically prohibits sexual relations except with a legal spouse, the church has made it clear that it considers sexual relations within a legal same-sex marriage to be a violation of this law, as well as sex within legal polygamous marriages.

Broader law of chastity as taught by church leaders

Some activities that leaders of the church have taught are a violation of the law of chastity are rape, incest, adultery, fornication, homosexual behaviour, and sexual abuse.Fact|date=January 2008 Sexual touching and cybersex are also considered violations when done with someone other than a legally and lawfully wedded spouse.Fact|date=January 2008

Obedience to the Law of Chastity is a requirement of membership in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. In addition, they are encouraged by the Church to avoid even the thought of the activities described above, including dressing modestly and avoiding pornography as well as controlling their sexual passions such as refraining from self masturbation and sexual perversion Fact|date=February 2007.

Importantly, Mormons believe that sexuality between man and woman lawfully married is divinely appointed and has two purposes: to "multiply and replenish the Earth" (Bible, Genesis 1:28) as commanded by God to Adam and Eve, and to strengthen the bond between man and woman that they might "become one flesh" (Bible, Mark 10:8), something many Christian sects believe to be a metaphor for a strong, healthy, happy physical, and mental union. Also seen as meaning, sexual relations are not to be used just for creating offspring but also for the expression of love between husband and wife throughout their lives.

According to the church, even though the violation of the Law of Chastity is considered a grievous sin before God, one who has violated the Law of Chastity, through proper repentance, can still be eligible to gain eternal salvation.

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