- Frances Shand Kydd
Infobox Person
name = Frances Shand Kydd
image_size = 200px
caption = The Hon. Frances Shand Kydd (on the right) andMaxine Riddington .
birth_name = Frances Ruth Burke Roche
birth_date = birth date|1936|1|20|df=yes
birth_place = Park House, Sandringham,Norfolk
death_date = death date and age|2004|6|3|1936|1|20|df=yes
death_place =Seil ,Argyll and Bute
death_cause =Parkinson's disease
brain cancer
nationality = British
title = The Honourable Frances Ruth Burke Shand Kydd
education =
spouse = Edward John Spencer, 8th Earl Spencer (1954-1969)
Peter Shand Kydd (1969-1990)
children = Elizabeth Sarah Lavinia Spencer (b.1955)
Cynthia Jane Spencer (b.1957)
John Spencer (1960)
Diana Frances Spencer (1961-1997)
Charles Edward Maurice Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer (b.1964)
parents =Edmund Roche, 4th Baron Fermoy (1885-1955)
Ruth, Lady Fermoy (1908-1993)The Honourable Frances Ruth Burke Roche Shand Kydd (
20 January 1936 –3 June 2004 ) was the former wife ofJohn Spencer, 8th Earl Spencer and the mother ofDiana, Princess of Wales . After two failed marriages and the deaths of two children, she devoted her later years toRoman Catholic charity work.Early life
Shand Kydd was born Frances Ruth Burke Roche in Park House, on the royal estate at Sandringham,
Norfolk . Her father wasEdmund Roche, 4th Baron Fermoy , a friend of King George VI and the elder son of the American heiressFrances Work and her first husband, the 3rd Baron Fermoy. Her motherRuth, Lady Fermoy DCVO was a confidante and lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth (later the Queen Mother).Marriage to John Spencer, 8th Earl Spencer
On
1 June 1954 , aged 18, Roche married John Spencer, Viscount Althorp (later the 8thEarl Spencer ) atWestminster Abbey . She was then known as Viscountess Althorp (the name is pronounced Altrup).The Althorps had five children:
*Elizabeth Sarah Lavinia Spencer (
19 March 1955 ), who married Neil Edmund McCorquodale, a distant cousin ofRaine, Countess Spencer
*Cynthia Jane Spencer (11 February 1957 ), who married Sir Robert Fellowes, later Baron Fellowes
*John Spencer, who died within 10 hours of his birth on12 January 1960
*Diana Frances Spencer later Diana, Princess of Wales (1 July 1961 –31 August 1997 ), first wife ofCharles, Prince of Wales
*Charles Edward Maurice Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer (20 May 1964 ), who married Victoria Lockwood, then Caroline Freud (the latter formerly wife ofMatthew Freud )The British media made comparisons between Lady Althorp's and Diana's lives, because both were inexperienced young women who were thrust into the spotlight by marriage to much older men in higher stations. As with the marriage of the Prince and Princess of Wales, the marriage between Lord and Lady Althorp was not a happy one. Diana, Princess of Wales strongly resembled her mother in appearance and character, as well. Fact|date=September 2007
In 1967, Lady Althorp ran off with
Peter Shand Kydd , an heir to a wallpaper fortune, whom she had met the year before. Subsequently, she was named "the other woman" in Janet Shand Kydd's divorce action against her husband. The Althorps were divorced in April 1969, and Lady Althorp was now known as The Hon. Frances, Viscountess Althorp.Personal life after divorce
In 1976, Lord Althorp married Raine, Countess of Dartmouth, the daughter of novelist
Barbara Cartland . (Deeply unpopular with her stepchildren, she was nicknamed "Acid Raine".) He eventually won a bitter custody battle over the children. Lady Althorp married Shand Kydd on2 May 1969 , and she was known as The Honourable Mrs. Shand Kydd. They lived on the remote Scottish island ofSeil . Much against her wishes, she was forced into public view following the marriage of Diana to the Prince of Wales in 1981.The Shand Kydds separated in June 1988 after he left his wife for a younger woman, and were later divorced. Frances Shand Kydd blamed the pressure of media attention for the breakdown of the marriage. She was well respected on the island and was known for taking long walks and for her love of
fishing . Peter Shand Kydd died in 2006.In 1996 Shand Kydd was banned from driving after being convicted of drunk-driving, but denied she had a problem with alcohol. She and Diana quarrelled in May 1997 after she told "
Hello! " magazine that Diana was happy to lose her title of "Her Royal Highness" following her divorce from the Prince of Wales. They were reportedly not on speaking terms at the time of Diana's death.Diana's death
In the wake of Diana's death, she made a point of visiting the family of
Henri Paul , the driver of the Mercedes which Diana and her companionDodi Al-Fayed were in when it crashed in aParis tunnel, killing all three of them. In her eulogy, she stated, "Strange though it may seem, my daughter's funeral was probably the proudest day of my life. Proud of her, proud of my elder daughters who were rock steady in their readings, and my only son who gave the ultimate tribute of brotherly love for her."Aftermath
In 2002, she testified at the trial of Diana's former butler
Paul Burrell , where she was forced to admit that she and Diana had been estranged for several months before Diana's death. She spent her later years in solitude onSeil . She converted toRoman Catholicism and devoted herself to Catholic charities.Death
She died on
3 June 2004 following a long illness that includedParkinson's disease andbrain cancer , aged 68. This was the anniversary of the birth of King George V, a curious coincidence given that she was born on the very day that George V died. (George V was the great-grandfather of her one-time son-in-law Prince Charles.)Funeral
Her funeral at the Roman Catholic Cathedral in
Oban on10 June was attended by many of her children and grandchildren, including Princes William (who gave a reading) and Harry. Their father, her former son-in-law, Prince Charles, did not attend because he was en route to another funeral - going to Washington to lead the British delegation at the funeral of former U.S. PresidentRonald Reagan the following day.Titles from birth to death
*The Honourable Frances Burke Roche (1936–1954)
*Viscountess Althorp (1954–1969)
*The Hon. Frances, Viscountess Althorp (1969)
*The Honourable Mrs. Shand Kydd (1969–2004)ee also
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Diana, Princess of Wales , Frances Shand Kydd's daughter
*Maxine Riddington , author of the biography 'Frances'External links
* [http://www.althorp.com/home/index.asp Althorp House]
* [http://www.innish.com/seil.html Isle of Seil]
* [http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1843170434 The biography of Frances Shand Kydd]
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