Jealousy typically refers to the
thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat.
Parrott makes use of the cause of jealousy to define it: “jealousy is an emotion experienced when a person is threatened by the loss of an important relation with another person” (Parrot, 2001, p. 313). He further defines it also as “a type of anxious insecurity following from the perception of threat to a relation” which sustains the jealous’ self (Parrot, 2001, p. 314). Prinz (2004, p. 93) says that jealousy is a “non basic emotion”, meaning that “it is combination of basic emotions with other mental states that are not emotions”. His statement has a foundation on the concept of basic and non basic emotions, which he takes from Plutchik. Prinz (2004, p. 93) suggests that jealousy “contains anger, sadness, disgust” (basic emotions), “all brought together by the belief that one’s lover has been unfaithful” (mental state). Further, Goldie says jealousy is a passion, focusing his definition on the effects of jealousy, which “frequently get out of control” (2000, p. 229). It is a common observation that the experience of jealousy can last much longer than the one of a basic emotion like anger, without losing its original intensity, and, in a paradox captured in
Rochefoucauld's maxim, it may outlast the attachment which it fears losing: "jealousy is always born with love; it does not always die with it."
The word "jealousy" is frequently used to describe what is more properly
envy, fixation on what someone else has. Envy and jealousy are distinct in their object (Goldie, 2000, p. 221). Jealousy concerns something one has and is afraid of losing, while envy concerns something one does not have and either he wants to acquire (nonmalicious envy) or he wants the other(s) not to have (malicious envy) (Parrot, 2001, p. 309).
The word stems from the French "jalousie", formed from "jaloux" (jealous), and further from Low Latin "zelosus" (full of zeal), in turn from the Greek word "ζήλος" ("zelos"), sometimes "jealousy", but more often in a good sense "emulation, ardour, zeal" [ [http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?search=jealousy&searchmode=none Jealous] , Online Etymology Dictionary] [ [http://www.perseus.tufts.edu/cgi-bin/ptext?doc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.04.0057%3Aentry%3D%2346217 Zelos] , Henry George Liddell, Robert Scott, "A Greek-English Lexicon", at Perseus] (with a root connoting "to
boil, ferment"; or "yeast").
Occurrence of jealousy
Jealousy is a familiar experience in human relationships. It has been reported in every culture and in many forms where researchers have looked. Buss, D.M. (2000). "The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy is as Necessary as Love and Sex". New York: Free Press.] cite journal |author=Buss DM |title=Human nature and culture: an evolutionary psychological perspective |journal=J Pers |volume=69 |issue=6 |pages=955–78 |year=2001 |month=December |pmid=11767825 |doi=10.1111/1467-6494.696171 |url=] White, G.L., & Mullen, P.E. (1989). "Jealousy: Theory, Research, and Clinical Practice". New York, NY: Guilford Press.] It has been observed in infants as young as 5-6 months old and in adults over 65 years old. Draghi-Lorenz, R. (2000). Five-month-old infants can be jealous: Against cognitivist solipsism. Paper presented in a symposium convened for the XIIth Biennial International Conference on Infant Studies (ICIS), 16-19 July, Brighton, UK.] Hart, S. (2002). Jealousy in 6-month-old infants. "Infancy", 3, 395-402.] Hart, S. (2004). When infants lose exclusive maternal attention: Is it jealousy? "Infancy", 6, 57-78.] Shackelford, T.K., Voracek, M., Schmitt, D.P., Buss, D.M., Weekes-Shackelford, V.A., & Michalski, R.L. (2004). Romantic jealousy in early adulthood and in later life. "Human Nature", 15, 283-300.] Jealousy has been an enduring topic of interest for scientists, artists, and theologians. Psychologists have proposed several models of the processes underlying jealousy and have identified individual differences that influence the expression of jealousy. Sociologists have demonstrated that cultural beliefs and values play an important role in determining what triggers jealousy and what constitutes socially acceptable expressions of jealousy. Biologists have identified factors that may unconsciously influence the expression of jealousy. Artists have explored the theme of jealousy in photographs, paintings, movies, songs, plays, poems, and books. Theologians have offered religious views of jealousy based on the scriptures of their respective faiths.
Jealousy involves an entire “emotional episode,” including a complex “narrative,”: the circumstances that lead up to jealousy, jealousy itself as emotion, any attempt at self regulation, subsequent actions and events and the resolution of the episode (Parrott, 2001, p. 306). The narrative can originate from experienced facts, thoughts, perceptions, memories, but also imagination, guess and assumptions. The more society and culture matter in the formation of these factors, the more jealousy can have a social and cultural origin. By contrast, Goldie (2000, p. 228) shows how jealousy can be a “cognitively impenetrable state”, where education and rational belief matter very little.
One explanation of the origin of jealousy in
evolutionary psychologyis that the emotion evolved in order to maximize the success of our genes: it is a biologically based emotion (Prinz after Buss and Larsen, 2004, p. 120) selected to foster the certainty about the paternity of one’s own offspring. A jealous behavior, in men, is directed into avoiding sexual betrayal and a consequent waste of resources and effort in taking care of someone else’s offspring. There are, additionally, cultural or social explanations of the origin of jealousy. According to one, the narrative from which jealousy arises can be in great part made by the imagination. Imagination is strongly affected by the culture a person is inserted in. The pattern of reasoning, the way one perceives situations, depends strongly on cultural context.
Psychology of jealousy
While mainstream psychology considers sexual arousal through jealousy a
paraphilia, some authors on sexuality (Serge Kreutz, "Instrumental Jealousy") have argued that jealousy in manageable dimensions can have a definite positive effect on sexual function and sexual satisfaction. Studies have also shown that jealousy sometimes heightens passion towards partners and increases the intensity of passionate sex. DeLameter, J. (1991). Emotions and sexuality. In K. McKinney and S. Sprecher (Eds.), "Sexuality, in close relationships" (pp. 49-70). Hillsdale, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.] ]
ociology of jealousy
Anthropologists have claimed that jealousy varies across cultures. Cultural learning can influence the situations that trigger jealousy and the manner in which jealousy is expressed. Attitudes toward jealousy can also change within a culture over time. For example, attitudes toward jealousy changed substantially during the 1960s and 1970s in the United States. People in the United States adopted much more negative views about jealousy.
Jealousy in art
Jealousy is the powerful complex of emotions experienced at the loss, real or imagined, of something or someone you believe is yours, whereas
envyconcerns what you don’t have and would like to possess. Othello is filled with jealousy at the thought of losing Desdemona: Iago is consumed with envy of Othello’s prestige. Because jealous lovers tell multiple stories about those who arouse their jealousy, and because the emotion is so corrosive, jealousy is a common theme in literature, art, theatre, and film.
Jealousy in religion
Jealousy in religion examines how the scriptures and teachings of various religions deal with the topic of jealousy. Religions may be compared and contrasted on how they deal with two issues: concepts of divine jealousy, and rules about the provocation and expression of human jealousy.
#Peter Goldie: The emotions, A philosophical Exploration – Oxford University press, 2000
# W. Gerrod Parrott: Emotions is Social Psychology – Psychology press, 2001
#Jesse J. Prinz: Gut Reactions, A perceptual Theory of Emotions – Oxford University press, 2004
* [http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/couples/heartaches_jealousy.shtml BBC: Jealousy]
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