Asma bint Abi Bakr

Asmaa bint Abu Bakr ( _ar. أسماء بنت أبي بكر) was one of the companions of the Islamic prophet Muhammad.

Family

She was Abu Bakr's daughter. Her mother was Qutaylah bint Abd al-Uzza. She was the half sister of Aishah and Muhammad ibn Abi Bakr.

Biography

Early Life: ? – 610

Asma was the about the eighteenth person to accept Islam. She was later given the nickname Dhat an-Nitaqayn (the One with the Two Waistbands) because of an incident connected with the departure of Muhammad and her father from Mecca on the migration to Medina.

She was married to Zubayr ibn al-Awwam and had two sons with him, Abd-Allah ibn al-Zubayr, the first Muslim to be born in Madinah after the hijrah, and Urwa ibn al-Zubayr.

Muhammad's era: 610 – 632

Abu Bakr's era: 632 – 634

Umar's era: 634 – 644

Uthman's era: 644 – 656

Ali's era: 656 – 661

Muawiyah's era: 661 – 680

One day in 692 Abdullah ibn az-Zubayr came to her:

:"Peace be on you, Mother, and the mercy and blessings of God."

:"Unto you be peace, Abdullah," she replied. "What is it that brings you here at this hour while boulders from Hajjaj's catapults are raining down on your soldiers in the Haram and shaking the houses of Makkah?" "

:"I came to seek your advice," he replied."

:"To seek my advice?" she asked in astonishment. "About what?"

:"The people have deserted me out of fear of Hajjaj or being tempted by what he has to offer. Even my children and my family have left me. There is only a small group of men with me now and however strong and steadfast they are they can only resist for an hour or two more. Messengers of the Banu Umayyah (the Umayyads) are now negotiating with me, offering to give me whatever worldly possessions I want, should I lay down my arms and swear allegiance to Abdul Malik ibn Marwan. What do you think?"

Raising her voice, she replied:

:"It's your affair, Abdullah, and you know yourself better. If however you think that you are right and that you are standing up for the Truth, then persevere and fight on as your companions who were killed under your flag had shown perseverance. If however you desire the world, what a miserable wretch you are. You would have destroyed yourself and you would have destroyed your men."

:"But I will be killed today, there is no doubt about it."

:"That is better for you than that you should surrender yourself to Hajjaj voluntarily and that some minions of Banu Umayyah should play with your head."

:"I do not fear death. I am only afraid that they will mutilate me."

:"There is nothing after death that man should be afraid of. Skinning does not cause any pain to the slaughtered sheep."

Abdullah's face beamed as he said:

:"What a blessed mother! Blessed be your noble qualities! I have come to you at this hour to hear what I have heard. God knows that I have not weakened or despaired. He is witness over me that I have not stood up for what I have out of love for this world and its attractions but only out of anger for the sake of God. His limits have been transgressed. Here am I, going to what is pleasing to you. So if I am killed, do not grieve for me and commend me to God."

:"I shall grieve for you," said the ageing but resolute Asmaa, "only if you are killed in a vain and unjust cause."

:"Be assured that your son has not supported an unjust cause, nor committed any detestable deed, nor done any injustice to a Muslim or a Dhimmi and that there is nothing better in his sight than the pleasure of God, the Mighty, the Great. I do not say this to exonerate myself. God knows that I have only said it to make your heart firm and steadfast. "

:"Praise be to God who has made you act according to what He likes and according to what I like. Come close to me, my son, that I may smell and feel your body for this might be the last meeting with you."

:"Abdullah knelt before her. She hugged him and smothered his head, his face and his neck with kisses. Her hands began to squeeze his body when suddenly she withdrew them and asked:"

:"What is this you are wearing, Abdullah?"

:"This is my armour plate."

:"This, my son, is not the dress of one who desires martyrdom. Take it off. That will make your movements lighter and quicker. Wear instead the sirwal (a long under garment) so that if you are killed your 'awrah will not be exposed."

Abdullah took off his armour plate and put on the sirwal. As he left for the Haram to join the fighting he said:

:"My mother, don't deprive me of your dua'a (prayer)."

Raising her hands to heaven, she prayed:

:"O Lord, have mercy on his staying up for long hours and his loud crying in the darkness of the night while people slept . . ."

:"O Lord, have mercy on his hunger and his thirst on his journeys from Madinah and Makkah while he fasted . . ."

:"O Lord, bless his righteousness to his mother and his father . . ."

:"O Lord, I commend him to Your cause and I am pleased with whatever You decree for him. And grant me for his sake the reward of those who are patient and who persevere."

By sunset, Abdullah was dead. Just over ten days later, his mother joined him. She was a hundred years old.

692: Death

According to almost all the historians, Asma the elder sister of Aisha, was ten years older than Aisha. [Al-Dhahabi, "Siyar A`la’ma’l-nubala’", Vol. 2, p. 289, Arabic, Mu’assasatu’l-risalah, Beirut, 1992] [Ibn Kathir, "Al-Bidayah wa’l-nihayah", Vol. 8, p. 371, Dar al-fikr al-`arabi, Al-jizah, 1933] Asma is reported to die in the 73 AH, when she was 100 years old. [Ibn Kathir, "Al-Bidayah wa’l-nihayah", Vol. 8, p. 372, Dar al-fikr al-`arabi, Al-jizah, 1933] [Ibn Hajar Asqalani, "Tahdhib al-Tahdhib", p. 654, Arabic, Bab fi’l-nisa’, al-harfu’l-alif, Lucknow] .

ee also

*Family tree of Asma bint Abu Bakr
*Sahaba

References

External links

* [http://anwary-islam.com/women/m-womens_asma.htm Story Of Asma Bint Abi Bakr]