Kaōanāeha

Kaʻōanaʻeha Mele or Mary Kuamoʻo Kaʻōanaʻeha (c.1780–1850) was a Hawaiian high chiefess during the formation of the Kingdom of Hawaii.

Parentage

She was born circa 1780^[1] the daughter of High Chiefess Kalikookalani. Genealogists disagree over who was Kaoanaeha's father due to her mother's two marriages. Most say she was the daughter of High Chief Keliʻimaikaʻi (The Good Chief) who was the only full-blood brother of Kamehameha I, being the son of Keoua and Kekuiapoiwa II. Some^[which?] say her father was High Chief Kaleipaihala-Kalanikuimamao son of Kalaniopuu, King of Hawaii and uncle of Kamehameha. King Kalakaua and Queen Liliuokalani supports the later due to their conflict with Kaoanaeha's granddaughter Emma Naea who ran for Queen Regnant in the Royal Election of 1874. Keliimaikai accepted her as daughter and most say he was her true father. She was the only person allowed to see him at his deathbed.

Royal status

Because of her royal status, when she was born pulo'ulo'u or kapu sticks with tapa-covered balls on the ends were set up before her house and pahu heiau or kapu drums were beaten heralding her birth. Further confirmation of her high status was when her father Keliimaikai died in 1810, she was reportedly the only person allowed to enter his premises.

One romantictised version of her meeting with English sailor John Young is similar to the story of Pocahontas and John Smith:

Young and Davis would have been killed had not Kaoanaeha, a high lady, fallen in love with Young and by her intercession with the King saved the lives of both sailors. Kaoanaeha was the most beautiful woman on the island of Owhyhee (Hawaii) and was the admiration of all the sailors who visited Karakakooa Bay (). She was the only daughter of Keliimaiki, the favorite brother of the great King, Kamehameha I. John Young and Kaoanaeha were soon married. King Kamehameha appreciated the superior talents of the white men and made them high chiefs..^[2]

A problem with this story is that She married John Young as his second wife in 1805. Young married Namokuelua prior to her, and more than 18 years lapsed between Young's arrival and Kaʻōanaʻeha's marriage.

She defied the Christianity of her husband, and was similar to Princess Ruth Keʻelikōlani in turning down Western ways. For example, after Young died in 1835 she took as her new name Mele Kuamoʻo, after the battle of Kuamoʻo where her brother Kekuaokalani, defender of the kapu system, was killed leading the rebel forces against those of Kamehameha II in 1819.

Death

In the last days of her life, she wished to stay in Kawaihae. She had been reluctant to go to Honolulu and probably knew that she would not return just as fifteen years before, her husband did not return. At sixty-two and too ill to be cured, she died in Rooke House on January 22, 1850. She was buried the next day on the palace grounds by the Royal Tomb, without any high ceremony. Some^[which?] wondered why a chiefess of her status would be buried so quietly. The official Polynesian did not make much of her death either, devoting just a few lines to her obituary. One reason for the lack of respect indicated that she was "out of favor in the royal circle of Honolulu" partly because she preferred the traditional Hawaiian values, including the ancient religion, and had resisted Christianity and Westernization.

Family tree

Keliʻimaikaʻi (1765-1809)

Kalikoʻokalani

Kaleipaihala

Robert Young

Grace

Davis Family

Kaʻōanāʻeha (1780–1850)

John Young (1742–1835)

Namokuelua (1780-1804)

Robert (1796-1813?)

Haʻale

James Kānehoa (1797–1851)

Sarah Kaniaulono (1797–?)

Henry C. Lewis

Fanny Kekelaokalani (1806–1880)

George Naʻea (1797-1852)

Jane Lahilahi (1812-1862)

Nuʻuanu

Mary Paʻaʻāina (1833-1853)

J. A. Griswold (1823-?)

Dr. T. C. B. Rooke (1806–1858)

Grace Kamaʻikuʻi (1808–1866)

Governor Cox Keʻeaumoku (1784–1824)

Samuel Nuʻuanu

Paʻaʻāina Griswold (1853-1860)

House of Kamehameha

Queen Emma (1836–1885)

Kamehameha IV (1836–1885)

Kamehameha III (1813–1854)

Jane Lahilahi (1813–1862)

Joshua Kaʻeo (?-1858)

Keoni Ana (1810–1857)

Julia Alapaʻi (1802–?)

Prince Albert (1858–1862)

Kiwalaʻo (1851-1851)

Albert Kunuiakea (1851-1903)

Mary Beers

Peter Kekuaokalani (1836–1880)

Keliʻimaikaʻi "Alebada" (?-1851)

Notes

1. ^ "Kuamoo Kaoanaeha “Mele”". Our Family History and Ancestry. Families of Old Hawaii. http://familiesofoldhawaii.com/getperson.php?personID=I1057&tree=Ano. Retrieved 2010-02-16. 
2. ^ "Boatswain John Young: his adventures in Hawaii recalled" (PDF). New York Times archive. February 14, 1886. http://query.nytimes.com/mem/archive-free/pdf?_r=1&res=990CE5D61F3BE532A25757C1A9649C94679FD7CF. 

References

• Kanahele, George S.. Emma: Hawai'i's Remarkable Queen : a Biography . University of Hawaii Press, 1999.
• Hawaiian Kingdom 1854-1874, Twenty Critical Years By Ralph S. Kuykendall