- Eligible bachelor
An eligible bachelor is a
bachelor considered to be a particularly desirable potentialhusband , usually due towealth , orsocial status .Robin Lakoff explains that the term indicates an inequality between men and women, as an "eligible bachelor" chooses to be a bachelor, whereas an "eligible spinster" does not have a choice. This use of language fosters, and grows from,sexual discrimination . [ [http://64.233.179.104/scholar?hl=en&lr=&q=cache:QaZfcwnvspwJ:www.jsri.ro/new/%3Fdownload%3Djsri_14_articol_09_iulia_grad.pdf+%22eligible+bachelor%22] Words and Women. An eligible bachelor vs. an eligible spinster] Lakoff states "women are given their identity in our society by virtue of their relationship with men, and not vice versa." [ [http://books.google.co.uk/books?hl=en&lr=&id=bVG5XCa1DkkC&oi=fnd&pg=PA203&dq=%22eligible+bachelor%22&ots=3jyxfzmYbb&sig=3lMEBFWRJljGgetJV2vPpsmidQw#PPA207,M1] Sociolinguistics,By Christina Bratt Paulston, G. Richard Tucker] In theUnited Kingdom , theheir to the throne or someone close in succession is often considered to be the nation's, or the world's most eligible bachelor, due to their social status, as has happened withPrince Charles [ [http://books.google.co.uk/books?hl=en&lr=&id=kOE08Va3p4gC&oi=fnd&pg=PA7&dq=%22eligible+bachelor%22&ots=4BGzodI1Po&sig=boa0z0E0F2dGR7XH5nVn_WlsqNY#PPA23,M1] Diana Style By Colin McDowell] andPrince William .Jane Austen 's novels are often concerned with the heroine's relationship with an eligible bachelor. Jane Austen's "Emma " particularly concerns a woman's attempt to obtain a husband for her friend by embroidering the truth. The gentleman in that case sees it as an example of thematchmaker 'screativity and falls in love with her. [http://www.jstor.org/pss/777029 Postmodernist Portraits-JSTOR ]Rock Hudson was hailed as an eligible bachelor. [ [http://books.google.co.uk/books?hl=en&lr=&id=h4hxUfPouKAC&oi=fnd&pg=PR13&dq=%22eligible+bachelor%22+gay&ots=FSTGON16m_&sig=xkPtDS0sXMTpCMtUd3o-Yd9wIAg#PPR21,M1] Gay and Lesbian Professionals in the Closet] However, if a man chooses to remain an eligible bachelor for long, he may be suspected of being gay, [ [http://books.google.co.uk/books?hl=en&lr=&id=7gPng0b8eJ4C&oi=fnd&pg=PA95&dq=%22eligible+bachelor%22&ots=DaqNYz3rQz&sig=kp2CxZlJON1SF5DbNr_PzhUTMSg] hiv/aids and the older adult By Nokes, Kathleen Mary Nokes] and may sometimes be referred to euphemistically as a "confirmed bachelor" [ [http://www.telegraph.co.uk/money/main.jhtml?xml=/money/2007/05/05/cnbp05.xml] BP's jaw-dropping moment] a role closeted gay men may have played.References
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Courtship
*Social status
*Romantic fiction
*Closet
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