Urolagnia

"Golden shower" redirects here. For other uses, see Golden shower (disambiguation).

A woman in stockings raising her skirt and urinating into the mouth of a man

A woman urinating in a glass, in order to drink the urine later.

Urolagnia (also urophilia, undinism, golden shower and watersports) is a paraphilia in which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or thought of urine or urination.^[1] The term has origins in the Greek Language (from ouron, urine, and lagneia, lust).^{[2][dead link][3]}

Those who enjoy urolagnia may enjoy urinating on another person or persons, or being urinated upon. Some participants may drink the urine; this practice is known as urophagia, though uraphagia refers to the consumption of urine regardless of whether the context is sexual. Urolagnia enthusiasts may participate in urolagnia as part of a domination and submission scene, though not all sexual activity involving urine is so.

These activities are often described with the slang terms golden showers, water sports, or piss play. Urolagnia is sometimes associated with omorashi, though in Western culture, omorashi is typically distinguished from urolagnia, with terms such as bladder desperation or panty wetting.

As a paraphilia, urine may be consumed or the person may bathe in it. Other variations include arousal from wetting or seeing someone else urinate in their pants or underclothes, or wetting the bed. Other forms of urolagnia may involve a tendency to be sexually aroused by smelling urine-soaked clothing or body parts. In many cases, a strong correlation or conditioning arises between urine smell or sight and the sexual act. For some individuals the phenomenon may include a diaper fetish and/or arousal from infantilism. Watersports may also be used in a BDSM scene as a form of humiliation, sometimes involving desperation until incontinence or infantilization, sometimes physical humiliation associated with being urinated on or pressured to consume urine. In some cases, a person is aroused by merely staging situations where others can either witness that person wet his or her clothing or smell his or her urine scent.

Urolagnia is sometimes associated with, or confused with, arousal from having a full bladder or a sexual attraction to someone else experiencing the discomfort or pain of a full bladder, a sadomasochistic inclination.

In the hanky code, urolagnia is symbolized by a yellow bandana in the right or left pants pocket.

In New Zealand, publishing anything promoting or supporting urolagnia, whether in print or online, is an offense punishable by up to ten years in prison.^[4][5][6]

Some common variations of urolagnia

A classic example of Voyeurism as well as Exhibitionism while peeing

Desperation – The act of holding one's own urine until the need to urinate is urgent, making another hold in their urine, or watching another person with an urgent need to urinate. This fetish sometimes originates from childhood memories of being or of seeing another needing to urinate. Arousal may be triggered by seeing the body movements or facial expressions of that person. It can also be heightened by the person saying that they have to urinate. The arousal from being desperate comes from the sensation of having a full bladder.^{[citation needed]}

Voyeurism – Seeing another urinate without the person's knowledge either through video taping by a hidden camera, or by lurking in locations where people are urinating or are likely to have an urge to urinate.

Clothes wetting – The person is sexually aroused by wetting one's clothing or observing another person doing so. Usually that person prefers to stage the wetting so that his/her legs (or other body parts) become soaked with urine. The warm sensation felt when urine trickles on the body seems to give very relaxing and pleasurable feelings to the person. In many cases, that person is also aroused by smelling body parts that have a urine scent. Others get aroused by telling some people about when they lost control and wet themselves. Some prefer a particular type of clothing to urinate.^{[citation needed]}

Exhibitionism – Becoming noticeably desperate or wetting oneself with the express purpose of being seen by strangers. Practitioners have described going to public places such as a mall or a park. Some intend to create situations where others can see their wet clothing.

Pussing – British expression for an activity involving a consenting couple where the male partner watches the woman urinate otherwise undetected in a semi-public place, usually a toilet cubicle at a pub, hotel, restaurant, theatre/cinema, office, club etc. The strategies and tactics that are used to smuggle one of the couple into and out of the toilet undetected are almost or as important as the urination. The activity is done by itself or as a part of or prelude to other activities which many times involve sex.

Other practices

Some people drink large quantities of their own urine as alternative medicine. This is not the same as urolagnia.

Some believe that some or all urine therapists may be urolagniacly motivated, as a sort of apologism or promotion of the fetish, whether the connection or even the fetish itself is consciously realized.^{[citation needed]} Similarly, urolagnia may be formed based upon appreciation for the perceived health benefits of urine therapy, as may happen with other health-related obsessions.^{[citation needed]}

Notable urophiliacs

• Havelock Ellis – British sexologist who was impotent until at age sixty he discovered that he was aroused by the sight of a woman urinating.^[7]
• Shirley Manson – Lead singer of the popular rock band Garbage. Was quoted in an interview as saying "I hate boys who are frightened of pee and shit and menstrual blood... I want a man who will let me pee in his belly button".^[8] The Garbage song "When I Grow Up" contains the lyrics "Happy Hours/Golden Showers".
• Annie Sprinkle – Former porn actress, later turned sex educator and advocate for female sexual enjoyment. Her stage name is derived from her obsession with fluids.^[9]
• Rockbitch – mostly female band featuring many sexual acts including urination as part of their stage act.^[10]
• Ashley MacIsaac – Nova Scotian fiddler and singer. In 1996 he spoke with a Maclean's interviewer mentioning his sexual life, including his underage boyfriend and his taste for urolagnia. In 2003 he told an interviewer for the Montreal Mirror that he loves to have men urinate on him.^[11]
• Albert Fish (The Grayman, The Boogeyman) wrote several letters to widows with want-ads in The New York Times and described in detail women urinating on him, inside of him, and in cups so that he could drink it. He later forced children to drink urine.^[12]
• Troughman an Australian noted in the Sydney media for lying down in urinal troughs at Sydney Mardi Gras parties and other events.^[13]
• Cat Chaser - Seattle-based goth/punk rock band that had a small but rabid following partially based on singer Cresta wetting her clothes during the band's performances ^[14]
• Ricky Martin - Puerto Rican Singer. Gave an interview with Blender Magazine in which he stated that he enjoyed "Golden Showers"^[15].
• Andy Milonakis - MTV star with his The Andy Milonakis Show admitted recently in an interview with People Magazine that he liked the feeling of "Warm urine" on his chest during sexual intercourse^{[citation needed]}. It is sometimes debated whether or not he was serious.
• R. Kelly - R&B Singer, Songwriter and Producer. In 2002 a bootleg copy of a videotape was released to the Chicago Sun Times that showed Kelly engaging in many sexual acts including urinating on a then 14 year girl who is the daughter of an associate and niece of a former Kelly protege. It was announced during his ongoing child pornography trial that the tape will be played in public court. Opening arguments are happened on October 13th 2006^[16].

References

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3. ^ Laws, Dr. Richard; William T. O'Donohue (1997). Sexual Deviance: Theory, Assessment, and Treatment. Guilford Press. p. 403. ISBN 978-1-57230-241-9. http://books.google.com/books?id=UTg5cj7UBiIC. Retrieved 2009-01-08. 
4. ^ "Censorship". Office of Film and Literature Classification. Government of New Zealand. 2007. Archived from the original on July 23, 2008. http://web.archive.org/web/20080723151722/http://www.censorship.govt.nz/censorship.html. Retrieved 2009-01-08. 
5. ^ "Meaning of objectionable". Films, Videos, and Publications Classification Act. Government of New Zealand. 1993. http://gpacts.knowledge-basket.co.nz/gpacts/reprint/text/2005/se/042se3.html. Retrieved 2009-01-08. "(d) the use of urine or excrement in association with degrading or dehumanising conduct or sexual conduct…" 
6. ^ "Films, Videos, and Publications Classification Amendment Act 2005". Dept. of Internal Affairs. Government of New Zealand. 2008-01-28. http://www.censorship.dia.govt.nz/diawebsite.nsf/wpg_URL/Services-Censorship-Compliance-Amendment-Act-2005?OpenDocument. Retrieved 2009-01-08. "As amended, a person who knowingly trades, distributes or makes objectionable materials now faces a maximum term of imprisonment of 10 years." 
7. ^ Andrew Brink (1980), "Havelock Ellis: eros and explanation (review of Phyllis Grosskurth, Havelock Ellis: a Biography)", Russell: the Journal of Bertrand Russell Studies 100 (1), http://digitalcommons.mcmaster.ca/russelljournal/vol100/iss1/11 
8. ^ Garbage, interview with Shirley Manson."
9. ^ Redaction, "Annie Sprinkle" (in Spanish), Miradas, http://www.eictv.co.cu/miradas/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=531&Itemid=93, "(...) she made herself get called Annie Sprinkle. Sprinkle (...) made reference to her obsesion with fluids: "I was atracted by the sprinkles over ice cones and by the sound of humidity. I like cascades, urine, vaginal fluid, sweat, anything wet. So the name "Annie Sprinkle" seemed perfect."" 
10. ^ Video of Rockbitch performance.
11. ^ Montreal Mirror report.
12. ^ Harold Schechter (1990), Deranged: The Shocking True Story of America's Most Fiendish Killer (reedited, illustrated ed.), Simon and Schuster, pp. 92, 271–272, ISBN 0671678752, 9780671678753, http://books.google.es/books?id=RtZBOBe5_dAC 
13. ^ Barry Charles (July 2003). "Troughman". Journal of Gay and Lesbian Social Services 15 (3&4): 65–74. doi:10.1300/J041v15n03_06. Robert Reynolds (July 2003). "Editor's Comment: Afternoon Tea with Troughman". Journal of Gay and Lesbian Social Services 15 (3&4): 70–74. doi:10.1300/J041v15n03_06. 
14. ^ Goth catchaster conspiracy
15. ^ report of Blender Magazine stoty
16. ^ Kelly trial information